Parent-Teen Bonding Ideas That Don’t Feel Forced

Because connection shouldn't come with eye rolls.

Finding ways to bond with your teen can sometimes feel like walking a tightrope. You want to spend time together, but the moment it feels too planned or parent-y, they shut down. Trust me—I’ve been there. But over time, I’ve learned that the best bonding moments come when we’re doing something low-pressure, maybe even a little silly, with zero expectation to “talk about our feelings.”

Games have become that space for us. And not the overly complicated kind or the ones that require a lot of setup. I'm talking about good old-fashioned card games, puzzles, and board games—simple, familiar, and surprisingly fun (even for teens who claim they're “too old” for Connect 4).