Why Routine Matters—Even on the Weekends

There are some weeks where it feels like everything is falling apart. Meltdowns, changed plans, school calls, surprise bills, or just sheer exhaustion can throw our whole world off balance. As a parent—especially raising a neurodivergent teen—you start to realize that you can’t control everything. But you can control some things. And that matters more than we think.

One of the most powerful tools I’ve found to bring calm into our chaos is routine. Not the rigid, schedule-every-minute kind. But the dependable, calming kind. The kind that tells our brains and bodies: you are safe here.